Episodes

  • Why Most Men FAIL to Quit Porn (I Did Too) | Ep. 359

    Why Most Men FAIL to Quit Porn (I Did Too) | Ep. 359
    Mar 27 2026

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    Most men are trying to quit porn…

    But they're doing it the wrong way.

    In this powerful interview, Frank Rich shares his personal journey through addiction, what finally helped him break free, and why an identity-based approach changes everything.

    This conversation goes beyond surface-level advice.

    It's about rebuilding the man behind the habit.

    What You'll Learn In This Episode

    • Frank's raw story of addiction—and what it took to break free

    • Why willpower alone doesn't work (and what does)

    • The identity shift that unlocks real transformation

    • A direct challenge for men still stuck in the cycle

    • A more constructive, sustainable approach to quitting porn

    • Why fitness and physical strength are foundational—not optional

    • The real blessings and unexpected challenges after freedom

    • How to become the same man in private that you show in public

    Ready to Rebuild Your Life?

    If you're serious about not just quitting porn—but becoming the man you were called to be…

    Join us inside The Rebuilt Man Brotherhood.

    This is where you'll get:

    • Daily structure and accountability

    • Coaching from Frank and the team

    • A brotherhood of men on the same mission

    • Proven systems to rebuild your identity, discipline, and life

    👉 Start your FREE 7-Day Trial today: www.therebuiltman.com/7dayreset

    About The Rebuilt Man Podcast

    The Rebuilt Man Podcast helps men break free from porn, rebuild identity, and step into disciplined, purpose-driven leadership. Hosted by Coach Frank Rich, each episode delivers direct, real, and transformational conversations on masculinity, addiction recovery, identity, mindset, faith, discipline, and personal growth.

    If you're ready to stop surviving and start becoming the man you were created to be — you're in the right place.

    About Coach Frank Rich

    Coach Frank Rich is the founder of The Rebuilt Man and creator of the Reboot Your Life transformation system. He helps men break free from porn addiction by rebuilding identity, discipline, and purpose through structure, brotherhood, and faith-rooted leadership. Frank's work has helped thousands of men overcome shame, rebuild marriages, and step into the men they were created to be.

    Next Step: Start Rebuilding Today

    If this episode hit you, don't do what you've always done, feel inspired and go back to isolation.

    Coach Frank invites you to take your first real step forward by joining the FREE 7 Day Porn Reset, where you'll get:

    • Clear daily structure

    • Brotherhood-based accountability

    • Identity-focused tools to break the cycle

    • A proven starting point into the Rebuilt Man system

    2026 doesn't need another attempt.
    It needs a decision.

    👉 Start the Free 7 Day Porn Reset today - www.therebuiltman.com/7dayreset

    –

    Follow Coach Frank:

    IG - https://www.instagram.com/coachfrankrich

    YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@CoachFrankRich

    Website - https://www.rebuiltrecovery.com/homepage
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    56 mins
  • Quitting Porn Won't Fix Your Life (Here's Why) | Ep. 358

    Quitting Porn Won't Fix Your Life (Here's Why) | Ep. 358
    Mar 25 2026
    JOIN "THE REBUILT MAN" ON SKOOL - ▶️ www.skool.com/rebootyourlife Most men believe this lie: "Once I quit porn… everything in my life will change." More confidence. More discipline. Better relationships. More success. But here's the truth… Quitting porn alone doesn't fix your life. Because porn was never the root problem. You were. In this episode of The Rebuilt Man, Coach Frank Rich breaks down the hard truth most men avoid: You don't need to just quit porn… You need to become a different man. If you've ever quit (or tried to quit) and still felt stuck, unmotivated, or unchanged… This episode will show you exactly why—and what it actually takes to rebuild your life. What You'll Learn In This Episode Why quitting porn doesn't automatically improve your life The biggest lie men believe about recovery Why porn is a symptom—not the real problem The truth about confidence, discipline, and self-worth Why most men stay stuck even after they quit The 5 key areas porn impacts—and what actually fixes them How to rebuild your identity, habits, and standards The role of discipline, structure, and accountability in transformation Key Takeaways Quitting porn is not the finish line—it's the starting point Removing the habit doesn't build the man Confidence is built through action—not abstinence Self-worth comes from keeping your word, not streaks Your body, relationships, and success reflect your standards Avoidance—not porn—is the real problem Real transformation requires discipline, structure, and brotherhood The Real Truth You can quit porn… And still be the same man. Still insecure. Still undisciplined. Still avoiding the life you know you're capable of. Because quitting porn doesn't change your life. Becoming a different man does. Ready to Rebuild Your Life? If you're serious about not just quitting porn—but becoming the man you were called to be… Join us inside The Rebuilt Man Brotherhood. This is where you'll get: Daily structure and accountability Coaching from Frank and the team A brotherhood of men on the same mission Proven systems to rebuild your identity, discipline, and life 👉 Start your FREE 7-Day Trial today: www.therebuiltman.com/7dayreset About The Rebuilt Man Podcast The Rebuilt Man Podcast helps men break free from porn, rebuild identity, and step into disciplined, purpose-driven leadership. Hosted by Coach Frank Rich, each episode delivers direct, real, and transformational conversations on masculinity, addiction recovery, identity, mindset, faith, discipline, and personal growth. If you're ready to stop surviving and start becoming the man you were created to be — you're in the right place. About Coach Frank Rich Coach Frank Rich is the founder of The Rebuilt Man and creator of the Reboot Your Life transformation system. He helps men break free from porn addiction by rebuilding identity, discipline, and purpose through structure, brotherhood, and faith-rooted leadership. Frank's work has helped thousands of men overcome shame, rebuild marriages, and step into the men they were created to be. Next Step: Start Rebuilding Today If this episode hit you, don't do what you've always done, feel inspired and go back to isolation. Coach Frank invites you to take your first real step forward by joining the FREE 7 Day Porn Reset, where you'll get: Clear daily structure Brotherhood-based accountability Identity-focused tools to break the cycle A proven starting point into the Rebuilt Man system 2026 doesn't need another attempt. It needs a decision. 👉 Start the Free 7 Day Porn Reset today - www.therebuiltman.com/7dayreset – Follow Coach Frank: IG - https://www.instagram.com/coachfrankrich YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@CoachFrankRich Website - https://www.rebuiltrecovery.com/homepage
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    7 mins
  • Is It Too Late to Quit Porn? (The Truth Most Men Need to Hear) | Ep. 357

    Is It Too Late to Quit Porn? (The Truth Most Men Need to Hear) | Ep. 357
    Mar 23 2026

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    Is it too late to quit porn?

    In this Q&A episode of The Rebuilt Man, Coach Frank Rich and Coach Arnold answer a powerful question from a listener who's been stuck in porn addiction for over 20 years:

    "Is there any real hope for me to heal?"

    Here's the truth:

    It's not too late.
    And it's not about your age.

    It's about awareness, identity, and the decision to change.

    In this episode, you'll learn:

    • Why men in their 40s, 50s, and beyond can actually have an advantage

    • The real reason younger men often struggle more

    • How your brain can rewire and heal at any stage of life

    • Why you don't "solve" addiction—you outgrow it

    • The shift from focusing on the problem → focusing on growth

    • How awareness leads to the moment everything changes

    Key takeaway:

    Freedom doesn't come from trying harder.

    It comes from becoming the man who no longer needs the behavior.

    Start your reset today (FREE)

    If you're ready to take action, join the 7 Day Porn Reset:

    👉 www.therebuiltman.com/7dayreset

    • Daily structure

    • Proven frameworks

    • Brotherhood + coaching

    • A clear path to rebuilding your identity

    Want your question answered?

    Drop it in the comments or email:
    frank@rebuiltrecovery.com

    About The Rebuilt Man Podcast

    The Rebuilt Man Podcast helps men break free from porn, rebuild identity, and step into disciplined, purpose-driven leadership. Hosted by Coach Frank Rich, each episode delivers direct, real, and transformational conversations on masculinity, addiction recovery, identity, mindset, faith, discipline, and personal growth.

    If you're ready to stop surviving and start becoming the man you were created to be — you're in the right place.

    About Coach Frank Rich

    Coach Frank Rich is the founder of The Rebuilt Man and creator of the Reboot Your Life transformation system. He helps men break free from porn addiction by rebuilding identity, discipline, and purpose through structure, brotherhood, and faith-rooted leadership. Frank's work has helped thousands of men overcome shame, rebuild marriages, and step into the men they were created to be.

    Next Step: Start Rebuilding Today

    If this episode hit you, don't do what you've always done, feel inspired and go back to isolation.

    Coach Frank invites you to take your first real step forward by joining the FREE 7 Day Porn Reset, where you'll get:

    • Clear daily structure

    • Brotherhood-based accountability

    • Identity-focused tools to break the cycle

    • A proven starting point into the Rebuilt Man system

    2026 doesn't need another attempt.
    It needs a decision.

    👉 Start the Free 7 Day Porn Reset today - www.therebuiltman.com/7dayreset

    –

    Follow Coach Frank:

    IG - https://www.instagram.com/coachfrankrich

    YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@CoachFrankRich

    Website - https://www.rebuiltrecovery.com/homepage
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    15 mins
  • 25 Shocking Facts About Porn (Most Men Ignore This) | Ep. 356

    25 Shocking Facts About Porn (Most Men Ignore This) | Ep. 356
    Mar 20 2026
    JOIN THE 7 DAY RESET - ▶️ www.therebuiltman.com/7dayreset 75% of Christian men watch porn. 67% of pastors have struggled with it. The average child is exposed at just 12 years old. And one porn site gets over 100 million visits… every single day. This isn't just a "bad habit." It's a global epidemic — and most men have no idea how deep it goes. In this episode of The Rebuilt Man, Coach Frank Rich breaks down 25 shocking, data-backed facts about porn that expose what it's really doing to your brain, your relationships, your identity, and your future. This is not a conversation about shame. This is a wake-up call. If you've ever told yourself: "It's not that big of a deal" "I've got it under control" "Everyone does it" …this episode will challenge everything you believe. Because porn isn't just something you watch. It's something that's shaping the man you're becoming. What You'll Learn The real percentage of men, Christians, and pastors watching porn The average age of first exposure (and why it matters) How porn is impacting marriages, attraction, and intimacy The shocking size of the porn and OnlyFans industry Why most men stay stuck (and why willpower doesn't work) What happens if you don't take control of this now Why quitting porn is not about behavior — it's about identity Key Takeaways Porn is not a private issue — it's a global system affecting millions of men Most men were exposed young — but staying stuck is a choice Porn rewires your brain and reshapes your standards for attraction The longer you tolerate it, the more it costs you — in discipline, confidence, and purpose Real freedom comes from rebuilding the man, not just stopping the behavior The Solution Most men try to quit porn by relying on willpower. That's why they keep failing. Inside this episode, Frank breaks down why true change comes from: Structure Accountability Brotherhood Identity transformation This is the foundation of the Reboot Your Life framework. Free 7-Day Porn Reset If you're ready to break the cycle and take control: 👉 Join the FREE 7 Day Porn Reset www.therebuiltman.com/7dayreset This is your first step toward: Rewiring your habits Rebuilding discipline Becoming the man you were meant to be About The Rebuilt Man Podcast The Rebuilt Man Podcast helps men break free from porn, rebuild identity, and step into disciplined, purpose-driven leadership. Hosted by Coach Frank Rich, each episode delivers direct, real, and transformational conversations on masculinity, addiction recovery, identity, mindset, faith, discipline, and personal growth. If you're ready to stop surviving and start becoming the man you were created to be — you're in the right place. About Coach Frank Rich Coach Frank Rich is the founder of The Rebuilt Man and creator of the Reboot Your Life transformation system. He helps men break free from porn addiction by rebuilding identity, discipline, and purpose through structure, brotherhood, and faith-rooted leadership. Frank's work has helped thousands of men overcome shame, rebuild marriages, and step into the men they were created to be. Next Step: Start Rebuilding Today If this episode hit you, don't do what you've always done, feel inspired and go back to isolation. Coach Frank invites you to take your first real step forward by joining the FREE 7 Day Porn Reset, where you'll get: Clear daily structure Brotherhood-based accountability Identity-focused tools to break the cycle A proven starting point into the Rebuilt Man system 2026 doesn't need another attempt. It needs a decision. 👉 Start the Free 7 Day Porn Reset today - www.therebuiltman.com/7dayreset – Follow Coach Frank: IG - https://www.instagram.com/coachfrankrich YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@CoachFrankRich Website - https://www.rebuiltrecovery.com/homepage
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    9 mins
  • 7 Distractions Keeping You Addicted to Porn | Ep. 355

    7 Distractions Keeping You Addicted to Porn | Ep. 355
    Mar 18 2026
    JOIN THE 7 DAY RESET - ▶️ www.therebuiltman.com/7dayreset You don't have a porn problem. You have a distraction problem. In this episode, Coach Frank Rich breaks down the 7 hidden distractions that are keeping men stuck in the cycle of porn addiction—and why quitting porn alone is not enough to create lasting freedom. From social media and video games to junk food and constant busyness, these everyday habits are silently rewiring your brain, destroying your focus, and training you to escape discomfort. And when those distractions stop working… you relapse. This episode dives into the neuroscience of dopamine, how overstimulation is killing your motivation, and why fasting from distraction is the key to finally taking back control of your life. If you've tried to quit porn before and failed… this is the missing piece. WHAT YOU'LL LEARN Why porn isn't the root problem (and what actually is) The dopamine loop that keeps you stuck in addiction How social media, Netflix, and gaming are rewiring your brain The real reason your motivation and discipline feel gone Why "staying busy" is actually making things worse The most dangerous habit that guarantees relapse How to reset your brain and rebuild control THE 7 DISTRACTIONS KEEPING YOU ADDICTED Social Media (Endless dopamine scrolling) Video Games (Artificial achievement) Netflix & Streaming (Passive escape) Junk Food & Sugar (Cheap dopamine hits) Constant Busyness (Avoidance disguised as productivity) Fantasy & Daydreaming (Mental escapism) Isolation (No accountability, no brotherhood) THE TRUTH MOST MEN MISS You don't relapse because you're weak. You relapse because your life is built around escape. And porn is simply the strongest form of that escape. If you don't fix the system… you'll stay stuck in the cycle. THE SOLUTION: RESET YOUR SYSTEM Quitting porn isn't enough. You need to reset your brain. That means removing the distractions… lowering the noise… and retraining your brain to find satisfaction in real life again. START YOUR RESET (FREE) If you're serious about breaking free… Join the FREE 7 Day Porn Reset and take back control of your life: 👉 www.therebuiltman.com/7dayreset Inside, you'll get: A step-by-step system to reset your brain Daily structure and accountability Proven tools to eliminate distractions A clear path to becoming the man you know you can be About The Rebuilt Man Podcast The Rebuilt Man Podcast helps men break free from porn, rebuild identity, and step into disciplined, purpose-driven leadership. Hosted by Coach Frank Rich, each episode delivers direct, real, and transformational conversations on masculinity, addiction recovery, identity, mindset, faith, discipline, and personal growth. If you're ready to stop surviving and start becoming the man you were created to be — you're in the right place. About Coach Frank Rich Coach Frank Rich is the founder of The Rebuilt Man and creator of the Reboot Your Life transformation system. He helps men break free from porn addiction by rebuilding identity, discipline, and purpose through structure, brotherhood, and faith-rooted leadership. Frank's work has helped thousands of men overcome shame, rebuild marriages, and step into the men they were created to be. Next Step: Start Rebuilding Today If this episode hit you, don't do what you've always done, feel inspired and go back to isolation. Coach Frank invites you to take your first real step forward by joining the FREE 7 Day Porn Reset, where you'll get: Clear daily structure Brotherhood-based accountability Identity-focused tools to break the cycle A proven starting point into the Rebuilt Man system 2026 doesn't need another attempt. It needs a decision. 👉 Start the Free 7 Day Porn Reset today - www.therebuiltman.com/7dayreset – Follow Coach Frank: IG - https://www.instagram.com/coachfrankrich YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@CoachFrankRich Website - https://www.rebuiltrecovery.com/homepage
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    8 mins
  • Why You Still Watch Porn… Even When You Don't Want To | Ep. 354

    Why You Still Watch Porn… Even When You Don't Want To | Ep. 354
    Mar 16 2026
    JOIN THE 7 DAY RESET - ▶️ www.therebuiltman.com/7dayreset Millions of men today are trapped in a cycle they hate. They promise themselves they're done. They swear it will never happen again. They pray for the strength to stop. But days later… they find themselves right back in the same place. The same screen. The same behavior. The same shame. So the question becomes: Why do men keep watching porn… even when they genuinely want to stop? In this episode of The Rebuilt Man, Coach Frank Rich breaks down the 7 real reasons men remain stuck in the cycle of porn addiction — even when they feel disgusted with the behavior. This conversation goes deeper than surface-level advice and exposes the psychological, environmental, and identity-level patterns that keep men trapped. If you've ever asked yourself "Why do I keep going back to something I hate?" — this episode will give you answers. More importantly, it will show you the path forward. In This Episode You'll Learn • Why porn addiction creates a hidden double life for many men • How the cycle of porn leads to shame, self-hatred, and loss of self-respect • The surprising reason most men are addicted to the relief, not the porn itself • How porn rewires the brain through dopamine conditioning and novelty • Why isolation and secrecy keep men trapped in addiction • How your environment and habits may be setting you up for relapse • The deeper identity shift required to truly break free The 7 Reasons Men Keep Watching Porn Coach Frank breaks down the core patterns behind the addiction cycle: Trying to quit the behavior without rebuilding the man Living a life that feels overwhelming or unfulfilling Neurological conditioning from years of dopamine stimulation Fighting the battle in isolation Removing the habit without replacing it Living in an environment designed for relapse Becoming addicted to the temporary relief porn provides Understanding these patterns is the first step toward breaking them. The Truth Most Men Never Hear Porn addiction isn't just a behavior problem. It's an identity problem. Freedom doesn't come from simply trying harder. It comes from rebuilding the man behind the addiction — a man with discipline, purpose, brotherhood, and standards. Start Your 7-Day Porn Reset If you're ready to finally break the cycle and start rebuilding your life, the best place to begin is the 7-Day Porn Reset. Inside this free challenge, Coach Frank walks you through the exact process to: • Break the relapse cycle • Reset your brain and dopamine system • Build discipline and structure • Begin the journey of becoming The Rebuilt Man 👉 Start here: www.therebuiltman.com/7dayreset You don't have to fight this battle alone. Join the brotherhood and begin rebuilding the man you were meant to be. About The Rebuilt Man Podcast The Rebuilt Man Podcast helps men break free from porn, rebuild identity, and step into disciplined, purpose-driven leadership. Hosted by Coach Frank Rich, each episode delivers direct, real, and transformational conversations on masculinity, addiction recovery, identity, mindset, faith, discipline, and personal growth. If you're ready to stop surviving and start becoming the man you were created to be — you're in the right place. About Coach Frank Rich Coach Frank Rich is the founder of The Rebuilt Man and creator of the Reboot Your Life transformation system. He helps men break free from porn addiction by rebuilding identity, discipline, and purpose through structure, brotherhood, and faith-rooted leadership. Frank's work has helped thousands of men overcome shame, rebuild marriages, and step into the men they were created to be. Next Step: Start Rebuilding Today If this episode hit you, don't do what you've always done, feel inspired and go back to isolation. Coach Frank invites you to take your first real step forward by joining the FREE 7 Day Porn Reset, where you'll get: Clear daily structure Brotherhood-based accountability Identity-focused tools to break the cycle A proven starting point into the Rebuilt Man system 2026 doesn't need another attempt. It needs a decision. 👉 Start the Free 7 Day Porn Reset today - www.therebuiltman.com/7dayreset – Follow Coach Frank: IG - https://www.instagram.com/coachfrankrich YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@CoachFrankRich Website - https://www.rebuiltrecovery.com/homepage
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    10 mins
  • The Porn Crisis No Church Wants To Talk About | Ep. 353

    The Porn Crisis No Church Wants To Talk About | Ep. 353
    Mar 13 2026
    JOIN THE 7 DAY RESET - ▶️ www.therebuiltman.com/7dayreset What if the biggest struggle facing Christian men today is the one nobody talks about? The Truth Most Men Never Hear Porn addiction isn't just a moral issue. It's an intimacy disorder. Many men turn to pornography not because they want sex—but because they are trying to escape stress, loneliness, pressure, or emotional pain. Real freedom comes when a man learns to process those emotions, build brotherhood, and reconnect with God. Freedom Is Possible Coach Frank Rich spent 20 years trapped in pornography addiction. Today, he has walked in freedom for more than seven years and has helped thousands of men break the same cycle. His mission is simple: To help men rebuild their identity, reclaim their integrity, and become the leaders God created them to be.According to recent research from the Barna Group, 75% of Christian men regularly consume pornography. Even more concerning—64% of those men say they are comfortable with it. That means the majority of men sitting in church every Sunday are quietly fighting a battle they feel powerless to win. But what if freedom is actually possible? In this powerful message delivered at a men's church event, Coach Frank Rich shares his personal story of spending 20 years addicted to pornography before finally breaking free. Today, Frank has walked in freedom for over 7 years and has helped thousands of men rebuild their lives and break the cycle of porn addiction. In this episode, Frank reveals the five principles that have helped thousands of men break free from pornography and reclaim their identity as leaders, husbands, fathers, and men of faith. This message is raw, honest, and deeply convicting—and it's a reminder that no man is beyond redemption. What You'll Learn In This Episode • The shocking statistics about porn use among Christian men • Why porn addiction is destroying relationships, marriages, and leadership • The neuroscience behind how pornography rewires the brain • The real reasons men turn to porn (hint: it's usually not sex) • Why shame and secrecy keep men stuck in the cycle • The difference between behavior modification and identity transformation • How to rebuild self-respect and personal integrity • Why gratitude is one of the most powerful tools for rewiring the brain • How brotherhood and honest conversations unlock freedom The 5 Principles That Help Men Break Free In this message, Frank breaks down five powerful principles that have helped thousands of men reclaim control over their lives. 1. Tell The Truth Freedom begins with honesty. As long as a man hides his struggle in secrecy, that struggle holds power over him. The moment a man begins speaking the truth about what he's facing, the grip of addiction begins to weaken. 2. Learn To Say No Self-control is a muscle. Learning to say "no" to smaller temptations—like food, social media, or comfort—strengthens the discipline needed to resist bigger temptations like pornography. 3. Focus On Identity, Not Just Behavior Trying to quit porn by force rarely works. Real change happens when a man stops trying to modify behavior and starts transforming his identity—becoming the type of man who simply doesn't live that way anymore. 4. Build Your Self-Reputation Your mind is constantly tracking whether you keep your word. When a man repeatedly breaks promises to himself, he loses trust in his own discipline. But when he begins doing what he says he will do, his confidence and integrity grow. 5. Live From A Place Of Gratitude Pornography is often an escape from stress, loneliness, or dissatisfaction. But when a man begins practicing daily gratitude, he rewires his brain to appreciate the life he already has—and stops feeling the need to escape from it. Ready To Break The Cycle? If you're ready to take the first step toward rebuilding your life and breaking free from porn addiction, join our Free 7-Day Porn Reset. This challenge will help you: • Break the addiction cycle • Rewire your habits • Build real discipline and structure • Begin stepping into the identity of The Rebuilt Man 👉 Start here: www.therebuiltman.com/7dayreset You don't have to fight this battle alone. Join the brotherhood and begin rebuilding the man you were meant to be. About The Rebuilt Man Podcast The Rebuilt Man Podcast helps men break free from porn, rebuild identity, and step into disciplined, purpose-driven leadership. Hosted by Coach Frank Rich, each episode delivers direct, real, and transformational conversations on masculinity, addiction recovery, identity, mindset, faith, discipline, and personal growth. If you're ready to stop surviving and start becoming the man you were created to be — you're in the right place. About Coach Frank Rich Coach Frank Rich is the founder of The Rebuilt Man and creator of the Reboot Your Life...
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    24 mins
  • The Accountability Mistake Married Men Make When Quitting Porn | Ep. 352

    The Accountability Mistake Married Men Make When Quitting Porn | Ep. 352
    Mar 11 2026
    JOIN THE 7 DAY RESET - ▶️ www.therebuiltman.com/7dayreset One of the most common things married men tell me is this: "My wife is my accountability partner." On the surface, that might sound honorable. After all, she's the person most affected by the addiction. But in reality, putting your wife in the role of accountability partner often creates more tension, more pressure, and more damage inside the relationship. Because when your wife becomes the one responsible for monitoring your recovery, the marriage can slowly start to feel less like a partnership… and more like probation. In this episode, I break down why this common approach backfires and what real accountability actually looks like for a man who wants to rebuild his life, his integrity, and his marriage. If you're a married man struggling with porn addiction—or trying to rebuild trust after betrayal—this episode will help you understand the structure, brotherhood, and leadership required for real change. In This Episode You'll Learn • The accountability mistake many married men make when trying to quit porn • Why making your wife your accountability partner can damage the marriage dynamic • How this dynamic can unintentionally kill attraction and trust in a relationship • The difference between transparency and responsibility • The 3 levels of accountability every man needs for real transformation • Why brotherhood and male accountability are essential for overcoming porn addiction • How to rebuild integrity and leadership as a husband The 3 Levels of Accountability Every Man Needs Real transformation happens when these three levels work together: 1. Self Accountability Learning to keep your word and build discipline in the small daily habits that shape your identity. 2. Peer Accountability Surrounding yourself with other men who challenge your excuses, ask hard questions, and hold you to a higher standard. 3. Expert Accountability Getting guidance from someone who has helped hundreds of men break the cycle and rebuild their lives. When these three levels work together, something powerful happens: You stop trying to manage the addiction… and you start becoming the man who no longer needs it. A Message for Married Men Your wife should absolutely be part of your journey. But she shouldn't be responsible for managing your recovery. She should be your partner in the life you are building, not the person trying to police your behavior. When a man steps into real accountability and leadership, his wife doesn't have to carry that burden anymore. Instead, she begins to experience the man he is becoming. Ready To Break The Cycle? If you're ready to take the first step toward rebuilding your life and breaking free from porn addiction, join our Free 7-Day Porn Reset. This challenge will help you: • Break the addiction cycle • Rewire your habits • Build real discipline and structure • Begin stepping into the identity of The Rebuilt Man 👉 Start here: www.therebuiltman.com/7dayreset You don't have to fight this battle alone. Join the brotherhood and begin rebuilding the man you were meant to be. About The Rebuilt Man Podcast The Rebuilt Man Podcast helps men break free from porn, rebuild identity, and step into disciplined, purpose-driven leadership. Hosted by Coach Frank Rich, each episode delivers direct, real, and transformational conversations on masculinity, addiction recovery, identity, mindset, faith, discipline, and personal growth. If you're ready to stop surviving and start becoming the man you were created to be — you're in the right place. About Coach Frank Rich Coach Frank Rich is the founder of The Rebuilt Man and creator of the Reboot Your Life transformation system. He helps men break free from porn addiction by rebuilding identity, discipline, and purpose through structure, brotherhood, and faith-rooted leadership. Frank's work has helped thousands of men overcome shame, rebuild marriages, and step into the men they were created to be. Next Step: Start Rebuilding Today If this episode hit you, don't do what you've always done, feel inspired and go back to isolation. Coach Frank invites you to take your first real step forward by joining the FREE 7 Day Porn Reset, where you'll get: Clear daily structure Brotherhood-based accountability Identity-focused tools to break the cycle A proven starting point into the Rebuilt Man system 2026 doesn't need another attempt. It needs a decision. 👉 Start the Free 7 Day Porn Reset today - www.therebuiltman.com/7dayreset – Follow Coach Frank: IG - https://www.instagram.com/coachfrankrich YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@CoachFrankRich Website - https://www.rebuiltrecovery.com/homepage
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    11 mins