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The Unconscious Flyness Podcast

The Unconscious Flyness Podcast

By: Patrick Lee & Chad DeShawn
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Unconscious Flyness is a culture-shifting podcast hosted by CookingWithPatLee and Chad DeShawn. This isn’t performative masculinity — it’s evolved manhood.

Each week, two healed and self-aware men unpack self-improvement, emotional intelligence, relationships, current events, and pop culture — all while debunking red pill ideologies with facts, accountability, and humor.

It’s witty banter meets wise words. Growth without ego. Confidence without misogyny. Flyness without trying too hard.

This is what masculinity sounds like when it’s healed.

New episodes air every Sunday!

Patrick Lee 2026
Personal Development Personal Success Philosophy Social Sciences
Episodes
  • Being Black in the 90s: The Good, The Bad, and the HILARIOUS!
    Mar 23 2026

    The viral question “What was it like in the 90s?” has everyone talking—but this episode goes beyond surface-level nostalgia to explore the real experiences behind it.

    We dive into what it truly meant to grow up in the 90s, especially as Black kids navigating culture, community, and identity before the rise of social media (and thank God we didn't have social media back then!)

    From unforgettable childhood moments to the raw humor of roast culture, we unpack how those experiences shaped who we are today.

    Whether you lived it or are just curious about it, this conversation offers humor, honesty, and perspective on a generation that was raised a little tougher...and laughed a little louder.

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    39 mins
  • It’s a Divorce, Not a Separation. The TRUTH On Why The Target Boycott Will NEVER End!
    Mar 16 2026

    Pastor Jamal Bryant has stated that the Target Boycott is over. But is it really over or are folks really trying to spend their hard earned dollars at the retail giant again?

    In this segment, we discuss the Target boycott from our perspective. We share our thoughts on why the boycott won’t end and why this will impact the landscape of corporate spending as we know it.

    Welcome to “Off the Flyness”. These segments don’t count as normal full length episodes, but rather serve as an “off the fly” discussion that needs to be addressed to the community. If you like what you see, hit that subscribe button! Spread the love by sharing our content with your friends and family!

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    13 mins
  • Sinners is Going for Blood, But Can it Win BIG at the Oscars?
    Mar 14 2026

    In this episode, we dive into the growing awards season buzz surrounding Sinners and ask the big question: can this masterpiece actually go all the way at the Oscars? From its viral momentum to the cultural conversation surrounding the film, we break down why Sinners has what it takes to dominate the covered awards ceremony.

    Plus listen to us analyze, roast, and critique the viral Pretty Ricky video that's sweeping the internet right now!

    If you love movie analysis, awards season predictions, pop culture commentary, and Oscars debates, this episode is for you! Tap into the eliticism and subscribe today!

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    34 mins
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