The viral question “What was it like in the 90s?” has everyone talking—but this episode goes beyond surface-level nostalgia to explore the real experiences behind it.

We dive into what it truly meant to grow up in the 90s, especially as Black kids navigating culture, community, and identity before the rise of social media (and thank God we didn't have social media back then!)

From unforgettable childhood moments to the raw humor of roast culture, we unpack how those experiences shaped who we are today.

Whether you lived it or are just curious about it, this conversation offers humor, honesty, and perspective on a generation that was raised a little tougher...and laughed a little louder.

Pastor Jamal Bryant has stated that the Target Boycott is over. But is it really over or are folks really trying to spend their hard earned dollars at the retail giant again?

In this segment, we discuss the Target boycott from our perspective. We share our thoughts on why the boycott won’t end and why this will impact the landscape of corporate spending as we know it.

Welcome to “Off the Flyness”. These segments don’t count as normal full length episodes, but rather serve as an “off the fly” discussion that needs to be addressed to the community. If you like what you see, hit that subscribe button! Spread the love by sharing our content with your friends and family!

In this episode, we dive into the growing awards season buzz surrounding Sinners and ask the big question: can this masterpiece actually go all the way at the Oscars? From its viral momentum to the cultural conversation surrounding the film, we break down why Sinners has what it takes to dominate the covered awards ceremony.

Plus listen to us analyze, roast, and critique the viral Pretty Ricky video that's sweeping the internet right now!

If you love movie analysis, awards season predictions, pop culture commentary, and Oscars debates, this episode is for you! Tap into the eliticism and subscribe today!

The red pill movement claims to “wake men up.”

But what if it’s actually poisoning minds?

In this episode of Unconscious Flyness, CookingWithPatLee and Chad DeShawn confront the rise of red pill ideology, manosphere culture, and dominance-driven masculinity narratives that are reshaping how young men think about women, relationships, power, and identity.

We break down how red pill content:

• Encourages emotional suppression and grievance-based thinking

• Frames women as adversaries instead of partners

• Promotes dominance as the foundation of masculinity

• Exploits male frustration for profit • Reinforces isolation under the disguise of “strength”.

We examine how rigid masculinity norms contribute to depression, loneliness, relationship breakdown, and hostility — while influencers package resentment as empowerment.

This isn’t an attack on men.

It’s a call for accountability. It's a call for collective understanding. It's a call to shift your mindsets from blame to self reflection.

Because when masculinity becomes a performance built on control and superiority, everybody loses — especially men.

We believe masculinity can be strong without being oppressive. Confident without being insecure. Disciplined without being cold.

If you’re tired of rage marketing disguised as self-improvement, this conversation is for you.

The red pill isn’t truth. It’s a trap.

And we’re breaking it down — piece by piece.

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