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In today's conversation, an anonymous guest opens up about what it looks like to be a natural helper who has spent most of her life focused outward.

She is a teacher, a caregiver by nature, someone who reads a room the way most people read a book. And for a long time, that gift served her well. Until she realized it was also the thing quietly costing her the most, especially in her relationships.

What begins as a conversation about dating and anxious attachment slowly unravels into something much deeper. The exhausting cycle of showing up for everyone else while slowly losing track of yourself. The way being a helper can become a way of avoiding the harder question of what you actually need. And what it really means to pick yourself first without feeling selfish for doing it.

This is part one of a two part conversation. In part two, she goes even deeper into grief, self-judgment, and what it looks like to finally start extending to yourself the same grace you give everyone else.

Through it all, one question anchors the conversation. Where am I in this?

As you listen, notice what comes up for you in your own story, because even if the situation looks different, the pattern is often the same.

If you have ever poured from an empty cup, said yes when you meant no, or found yourself taking care of everyone's building but your own, this conversation will likely resonate in a very real way.

Get Dr. Lee Long's book WAIT, Where Am I in This here: https://tinyurl.com/mtfm6bh8

The WAIT, Let's Talk About That with Dr. Lee Long podcast is intended solely for general informational purposes and does not represent the practice of medicine, therapeutic and psychiatric services, nursing, or other professional health care services. It also does not constitute the provision of medical, therapeutic or psychiatric advice, and no doctor/patient relationship is established. The information on this podcast and any materials linked from it are used at the user's own risk. The content provided through this podcast should not be considered a replacement for professional medical, therapeutic, or psychiatric advice, diagnosis, or treatment. It is important that users do not ignore or postpone seeking medical, therapeutic, or psychiatric advice for any health or mental health condition they might have, and should always consult with their health care professionals regarding such conditions.

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In today's conversation, an anonymous guest opens up about her struggle with control and what she discovers is driving it.

What starts as a conversation about morning routines and a son who moves at his own pace, slowly unravels into something much deeper: the internal alarm that fires when a plan slips, the urgency that has nothing to do with breakfast schedules, and the exhausting pattern of looking to the people around her to quiet something that lives on the inside.

Through it all, one question anchors the conversation. Where am I in this?

If you've ever snapped at someone you love and sensed it was really about something else, or felt like your peace depends on everyone else getting it together, this one is for you.

Get Dr. Lee Long's book WAIT, Where Am I in This here: https://tinyurl.com/mtfm6bh8

The WAIT, Let's Talk About That with Dr. Lee Long podcast is intended solely for general informational purposes and does not represent the practice of medicine, therapeutic and psychiatric services, nursing, or other professional health care services. It also does not constitute the provision of medical, therapeutic or psychiatric advice, and no doctor/patient relationship is established. The information on this podcast and any materials linked from it are used at the user's own risk. The content provided through this podcast should not be considered a replacement for professional medical, therapeutic, or psychiatric advice, diagnosis, or treatment. It is important that users do not ignore or postpone seeking medical, therapeutic, or psychiatric advice for any health or mental health condition they might have, and should always consult with their health care professionals regarding such conditions.

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In today’s conversation, an anonymous guest opens up about nearly forty-five years of feeling unheard in her marriage.

What begins as a conversation about communication and frustration slowly reveals something much deeper. The exhaustion of trying to be understood by someone who may not be able to meet you where you are. The anger that builds when your needs feel dismissed. And the quiet grief of feeling unseen by the person closest to you.

As the conversation unfolds, deeper questions begin to emerge. What happens when you spend years looking to other people for the care and consideration you long for? How do you stop losing yourself trying to get someone else to finally hear you? And what does it actually mean to care for yourself without becoming selfish?

Through it all, one question anchors the conversation. Where am I in this?

You will hear how learning to locate yourself emotionally, instead of focusing only on changing the people around you, can begin to shift patterns of resentment, powerlessness, and emotional disconnection.

As you listen, notice what comes up for you in your own story, because even if the circumstances are different, the patterns are often the same.

If you’ve ever felt invisible in a relationship, struggled with resentment, or found yourself looking outward for the love and validation you deeply need, this conversation will likely resonate in a very real way.

Get Dr. Lee Long’s brand new book WAIT, Where Am I in This here: https://tinyurl.com/mtfm6bh8

The WAIT, Let's Talk About That with Dr. Lee Long podcast is intended solely for general informational purposes and does not represent the practice of medicine, therapeutic and psychiatric services, nursing, or other professional health care services. It also does not constitute the provision of medical, therapeutic or psychiatric advice, and no doctor/patient relationship is established. The information on this podcast and any materials linked from it are used at the user's own risk. The content provided through this podcast should not be considered a replacement for professional medical, therapeutic, or psychiatric advice, diagnosis, or treatment. It is important that users do not ignore or postpone seeking medical, therapeutic, or psychiatric advice for any health or mental health condition they might have, and should always consult with their health care professionals regarding such conditions.

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